We caught up with one of the friendliest, open-hearted and hilarious porn stars we’ve come across, Texan heartthrob Wesley Woods. We spoke about his recent excursions into bi and straight porn, an attack that left him shook up at the end of last year, anger management and self-discovery.

Earlier this week we caught up with one of the most charming hunks of the porn world, Wesley Woods. We spoke about Trans Threeways, Anger Management And Baths and a bunch of other stuff. In part two we look at Wes’s philosophy on sex, his career as a stand-up comic, his love for family and a bunch of advice for being your best self.

Danny Polaris: What makes you want to have sex with someone?

Wesley Woods: I’m a spiritual person, and connection can exist and manifest itself in many different ways. It’s extremely hard for me to say what it is that will attract me to someone. My range of attraction is completely all over the place.

I’ll fuck someone because of their height, age, sometimes because of their ass or dick, other times because of their eyes, laugh, smile and I’ve been known to fuck someone because it’s the unpopular opinion.

I don’t like being told what’s “attractive” and I don’t care that my comfort within my sexuality may cause others to feel uncomfortable. I’m not fucking children or animals, just consenting adults performing consensual acts.

If I were to date someone they would have to be compassionate and patient. I’m truly attracted to those who live comfortably in their skin, however they choose to live.

DP: Do you believe in polyamory?

WW: I believe people are capable of deciding what’s best for them, and instead of trying to understand why,  just let it exist as is. I would totally be open to polyamory.

It would be new for me and I feel I’d have to reshape my ideas on love and relationships, but I enjoy pushing myself mentally to gain a better understanding of what I want and who I am as a person.

On the flip side, having to dedicate everything that’s needed for one person, I’m not sure why anyone would want to try with multiple! Hell, I get excited if I date someone longer than a year!

DP: Do you ever get performance anxiety before sex?

WW: Not anxiety, but excitement. I think we’re just programmed to think of it as anxious when we should be thinking of it as positive energy. We should be using that energy to be like ‘Oh my God I’m so excited, this is going to be so much fun.”

I like to take that energy that could make me feel nervous and change it into energy that will make me excited. I’m a pacer, I like to pace. I’m a walker. I always have something in my hand.

DP: Are people too easily offended these days?

WW: No, I wish people would care more.

I’d prefer to think a lil deeper and allow everyone in on the joke. But, then again- not everyone can take 10inches.

DP: How do you make people laugh?

WW: It’s not really something that physically crosses my mind I guess. I stick to what I know, being a country ass hoe, and that’s just my perspective and the more I can dive into my perspective it seems to be the more people enjoy it.

I feel like when you try that’s when you’re not really being you, right? People are always like, be you, be you, and I just like to express it, through words and actions. I overshare.

DP: What do you overshare?

WW: Everything. This is me all the time. I’m just a very passionate, bold, crazy person, even to strangers on a plane- nothing ever phases me. This is just how I am.

I overshare with my Mom. Most people wouldn’t call their Mom and be like, “I’m going to get into porn, what do you think?!”

Most people wouldn’t call their parents on set and tell them they’re about to have an orgy, so tomorrow I’m gonna be tired and we will have to catch up tomorrow. These are just things I share.

DP: What does your Mom say about that?

WW: It’s not that big a deal, it’s work. I check in to see what she’s doing with her day and she check in to see what I’m doing with mine.

DP: Have your family always been comfortable with you doing porn?

WW: Yes. I think they’ve grown a lot more comfortable with it, but there was never a reaction like, “we hate you, we disown you, this is the dumbest idea we ever heard,” never once.

Nowadays I’m on Facetime with my parents with ChiChi LaRue, my parents love ChiChi, ChiChi loves my parents, they’ve never physically met, but they talk on Facetime often. My parents will go to a Porn Awards Ceremony with me before it’s all said and done.

I always say it’s because my parents loved me too much is why I got into porn. If they’d loved me less and I’d loved myself less I’d probably never have gotten into porn. You can’t keep a good dog down, Bow Wow Wow Wow!

DP: What’s that from?

WW: It’s from All Dogs Go To Heaven.

DP: Oh I used to love that film! I cried in the end when the dog died. I was like, no, he can’t be dead, no!

WW: Who was your favourite?

DP: Umm, the one who died?

WW: Charlie. That movie probably made me a dog person. And we always had about 12 dogs running ‘round the ranch at any given time.

DP: Well that probably helped too… What does masculine mean to you?

WW: When I used to hear that word, I used to think of a dude in Wrangler jeans and smelling like diesel oil. Nowadays I think of all the toxic problems associated with it. For me the word masculine has now taken on a negative role.

DP: Do you think that’s fair?

WW: I think it limits someone to being able to see you how you actually are. We’re a lot more than just one thing, masculine or feminine. Because you have a beard doesn’t make you any less than one or the other. Nor do your muscles or the size of your penis.

We need to start elevating ourselves, and start tapping into our true feelings, into our soul.

DP: Any advice to the rest of us on how to elevate ourselves and make the best of 2019?

WW: Always say yes, always say yes, and always be prepared to say yes. Seriously, I think that motto to always say yes is something that more people should try. In every aspect. Suck a big fat dick if you feel like sucking a big fat dick. Go and put on some high heels and some stockings on if you want. Go see a different part of your city, get out and do something different.

Walk the fucking street, literally see your neighbourhood and town for what it is, and be prepared to take the big fat dick up your butt at all times, live fast and die young, go and run run run. You’ve got to get out and partake in life.

Live boldly and live for you but also knowing that there are others trying to do the same thing and allow that space to exist. The world can be such a beautiful place if we just allow ourselves to be our own crazy selves, full throttle.

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